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3 Words to Change Your Valentine’s Day

What are the three words to change your Valentine’s Day? I’m not thinking of “I love you” – although those are definitely winsome and worthy words. I am thinking of a phrase I heard my Pastor preach a few Sundays ago. The three words are:  AND THEN SOME  What if you […]


Mallory Brown & family

Meet These Happy NFL Wives

With the Super Bowl a few days away, I thought, “Wouldn’t it be cool to interview a few NFL wives who are happily married?” Guess what? Two amazing women, Stacie Scifres and Mallory Brown (both San Diego Charger wives), emailed me about their desire to encourage other NFL wives who love […]



No More (Food) Exceptions

Peppermint Oreos.   Homemade Sugar Cookies.  A Box of See’s Chocolates.  Need I write more?  A little of this and a little of that and if you’re like me, January has you weighing in a few pounds heavier.  Six holiday pounds for me. Every year, it’s the same story.  Every […]



Giveaway: Raising Grateful Kids in an Entitled World

  ***The giveaway is now closed.  Congrats to our winners:  Jeanette and Missy!*** How would you like to trade the whining in your household for gratitude? Goodbye to “Mom, why can’t I have one?  Everyone else has one!”  Hello to “Thanks mom, but I don’t need that.  I have enough.” […]



Podcast: Kristen Welch Raising Grateful Kids Pt 1

Download the podcast on iTunes or listen here: I interviewed popular blogger Kristen Welch for my book 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Mom.  I was introduced to Kristen years ago by a mutual friend (my friend’s dad performed Kristen’s wedding!).  I love reading Kristen’s blog We are THAT Family and […]



Dear Older Me

I like the song by Mercy Me, “Dear Younger Me,” but lately I’ve been thinking about the opposite. What if I wrote a letter to the older me…about the things I really want to remember? This question was prompted by watching videos of myself.  You see, James and I celebrated […]



Your Word of the Day

When my husband James was a high schooler in the 80s, he was known to bring the “Word of the Day.”  As a passionate Christian, he wanted to share Bible verses with his classmates.  He would share the “Word of the Day” from the Bible verbally or by passing a note […]